Hi Snodderly,

Thank you for the wonderful advice!

I know God is watching over this situation & I cannot worry about it b/c there is not anything I can do.

I have not been in touch with xh friend anymore since he was here in the US. Him & his wife will not have any more to do with my ex until he gets rid of this OW, so I have a feeling I've heard from OW since they have. But, that is great advice & I tried to be very careful when I spoke to them & was selective in what I said. If I do hear from them I don't think it will be about ex or ow, they can't stand OW! His wife & I like to exchange recipes.

I think when I first get these emails, it does upset me but that is when I think how much I'm in her mind & if she wasn't so insecure about me, then she wouldn't have to write those nasty emails.

Thank you for your advice & support, I really do appreciate it!!!

(((HUGS))))