I'm new wondering if this works...

[BigJohn]

Geez...H just rolled in here unnanounced and sat silently as I got S ready for trick or treating - then tells me he was doing drugs at a party last night. I'm completely freaking out inside = but keeping cool on the outside. I'm furious!

Hope,

This needs to be addressed in MC. Has your H used drugs in the past or is this completely out of character for him? I can understand why you would be angry, but you are doing the right thing staying cool- someone has to keep a level head here.