Someone posted here that they get upset when people come to the “Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again” thread too soon in their journey. I think I am one of those people that came here too soon. I have been detaching more and more. Doing my own thing. Still doing small things for wife to show I still do care but expecting NOTHING in return, NO R talk. Amazing things have happened even though they are small things like these would NOT have happened a year ago. One example… Wife always gets son ice cream at night…last night after she gave son his ice cream son and I started watching a movie. About half way through the movie w comes in and asks ME if I wanted some Ice cream and apple crisp that she made. I said ya sure... she went into the kitchen and not only got me the ice cream she warmed up the apple crisp in the microwave. AND she was not getting any for herself... she did this just for me. another part of my detaching was that she was talking about this deep fryer she had seen in the store (ours is about 25 years old) well I had just sold some firewood so I gave her the money for the deep fryer and said her go buy it and walked away.. NOT going for the kiss that I would usually go for. So NO EXPECTATIONS…… Well my margarita needs a refill so I will talk to ya all later
Doc.
I couldn't take it any longer Lord I was crazed And when the feeling came upon me Like a tidal wave I started swearing to my god and on my mother's grave That I would love you to the end of time I swore that I would love you to the end of time! So now I'm praying for the end of time To hurry up and arrive 'Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you I don't think that I can really survive I'll never break my promise or forget my vow But God only knows what I can do right now I'm praying for the end of time That’s all I can do……………………………………………
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
