he didn't even ask me if I still wanted to go ahead with it, he just made the decision for both of us.
I'm hoping that is unusual.
My bet is that it is about the relationship. The way he is flipping around reminds me of Sept. He moved out, then asked you to the BBQ, then didn't want to go to the BBQ etc. Now he initiates fantasy play, then gets upset about it. Says he is going away alone for the weekend and then asks you to come Sunday. You are doing a great job of staying steady and calm. Be prepared for him to try to zing you again.
