Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

I didnt spend halloween with my babies ages 1 and 3. My w had them and they spent the day at my cousins and went trick or treating. About 8 oclock she send me two text of photo images of my son in his costume. I felt like crying and screaming at her. Why would she send this to me.Is it her way of trying to hurt me?

It's possible. It's also likely that she may have sent them to you because she wanted you to have something of their Halloween. She might have been trying to do you a favor...

She knew how badly I wanted to see the kids on halloween but she never brought up the possibility of us hanging together with the kids. She says they need structure and when its her days its her days and vise versa. Then why send me the photos? I never responded but I really wanted to but I thought what would I gain from a negative response.

So you text back and say "thanks for the pictures, he looks great!". Then you scream, cry, throw pillows at the wall, or do whatever you have to do to get it out of your system.

But don't do it where she can see or hear; she should get nothing from you but a positive mental attitude and detachment.