Totally understand your feelings Cas and Sanderika, my H was an is my first and only love, giving up on him is gonna be a very hard thing to do, so I too can see why you feel the way you do and with both H's being so positive about things, you could just say well Ive waited this long a bit longer wont hurt, but maybe you both need to set a time when enough is enough and D is immenant and you will just have to have a wonderful second wedding if you make it back together, because to be honest wouldnt you like to see them make that sort of commitment to start again! Just getting back together might not be enough?
Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 11/02/0912:07 AM.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
