Not sure what to do

[TrentC]

Anyway, when she makes up her mind in anything, there is little hope of changing it.

As long as you believe that, you are right.

Less than a month ago, I was on the phone with a very good friend sobbing my eyes out at the fact that my wife was leaving me and there was nothing I can do. "I don't see how I get a happy ending" were my exact words.

Today, we seem to be getting along almost as well as we did before the bomb, and there has been no D talk of late.

Is my divorce busted? Not hardly; not until she is willing to say that she wants to work on it (not just "I hope that we can work it out") and we start healing together. But there is no progress towards a D right now, so I count that as a victory.

One thing she said to be yesterday, was that she had a lovely night, but it felt like we were strangers.

Of course she did. Best thing to do is not respond to it, or say something like "I understand how it might feel that way".