So, to detach, I should have answered that it was a good idea to get a haircut so that I can start bettering myself to look presentable cuz you never know who you'll meet?
Well, you could have simply agreed and said something like "I've been thinking of changing things up a little."
She can think whatever she wants about why, but maybe a new 'do on you might get her thinking. Especially if it comes with a wardrobe transformation, getting in shape, etc.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement