Tired of the game

[Sanderika]

(((((Julia)))))

I have great respect for your courage.

Stay strong my friend.

Don't worry about the tears, I too have found that I can't really cry anymore. Maybe when this is all completely over we will find one last bout of them and be done.

We can both be very proud of our values and respect for our marriages in that we have given it our all to reconcile what is/was precious to us, we both have realized we can't keep trying all alone. Our H's just don't seem to want what we do anymore. For us it was hard to learn and accept. I am finding peace in the acceptance that "what is...is". I am grateful that my H and I have become friends in this process. I, like you, do not feel that I will be able to "be friends" with him once this is all settled. We have a S13 and I have learned over the past 4+ years to parent and get along quite well for myself.

I know I will be OK. I know that you will be OK.

(((((Julia))))) take care of yourself, the days ahead will be difficult.

Sanderika