#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[mishka422]

I feel I am not allowed to even consider trusting him.

Allowed? Only you can decide to trust and only you can let go of the resentment. How you go about that......I have no idea!!!! Your H can't do it for you. He can't even 'make' you trust him again. You will have to let your defenses down some in order to give this any true chance of working. It's hard, especially after you have had to build up such a thick skin because of all the hurt. Try to just be a little vulnerable and not so 'superwoman' any more.

Good luck K! I'm rooting for you. If anyone here can do this, I have faith that you can!