It's too hard sometimes

[Lost Rabbit]

Hi Mark havent posted on your thread before but you are right "tough love" for yourself is really the way to go! Look in the mirror and honestly ask yourself would you fall in love with you! I expect the answer would be no, certainly would have been of me when H first dropped the bomb on me, I was needy, self centred, co-dependant and cake eating probably in his opinion. Im sure the fact he is sitting waiting to chat to me on MSN at this moment is because I booted myself up the bum and administered some tough love on myself, as DB tells you time and time again, you CANT control your spouse but you can control what YOU do! Go to your aunts get yourself back on track, make yourself look a viable prospect for pursuing from your W's POV and if she isnt interested by then you will be fighting the ladies off with a stick! Keep your chin up and know that we are all with you and have been in the same position and all have our struggling days and good days.