I'm also beginning to understand why people take breaks from the site for a few days; some people's stories are so painful, or close to our own, or frustrating to read, that it starts sucking our own energy away.
In my case, it's the other way around. My W seems so determined to D that I'd get depressed reading the threads where the WAS shows some indecision.
I so want a second chance. I can't believe it's ... just ... over.
But I'm doing better marching on.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6