Detachment

[TrentC]

(Anyone up for saying the Serenity Prayer? It's ALL about detachment in its' own way!!)

I have that on my mirror at home, and on my monitor at work.

K4, I think you throw in your religious discussions as a way of deflecting away from your own work, or from the detachment discussions to derail the way the conversations are going. Please don't do that. Learn more from this board than you have. Process what someone writes before posting right away again as if they never spoke. And let others do their own detachment / GAL work, without you looking for borderline comments as avenues for you to hurl a pseudo-theological argument/wrench into, (especially a thread on detachment!!).

I feel the same way about this "support group" that you've thrown now thrown yourself into forming, K4D. It seems like you're trying to bail on the uncomfortable discussion here, but still want to steer others' efforts to DB on the premise of "being there for each other." It's harder for people to be honest and critical if they're in the same room...

I'm not opposed to live support groups in general, just suspicious of the timing and motivation of this one.