Bill....as you see, we are going that path. If I have to, I will get a full-time nanny, downsize, do whatever is necessary. An angry, belligerent, vindictive person should NOT be in control. It's a tough battle in NYS. I may lose, but, where I stand now....it's ridiculous.

The state of NY does NOT award joint custody. It doesn't exist in the legal system. They award only sole custody. Winner takes all.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;