Done....it is about to a begin. It is not what I wanted. I tried. What's that saying? I didn't start it but I'm going to finish it?

In surgery, sometimes it's time to operate when we are stuck..don't have the answers...or the patient is deteriorating. Honestly, I don't see much of an option here except to push the throttle forward. There is a lot that STBXW can bend, truth-wise, to make me look bad. But...there is much fodder for me to show that I am a good father and do much of the caretaking.

If she had said no to 3 things, yes to 3 things and maybe to 3 things, we'd have a shot here. But to shut down EVERYTHING and WITHDRAW my parenting time.........

This won't be pretty....

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;