Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[TrentC]

I am asking you to start doing things differently in your life if you want different results.

I am asking you to stop making excuses as to why you can't do a certain thing or things to change the direction of your life and the relationship you're in.

I am asking you to be consistent in your actions and not give up after 3-4 hours, days, weeks, months, etc.

If you are willing to "do anything" to try to save your relationship then it seems silly to discount GALing and 180s, not pursuing, etc. as being worth the effort.

If I told you that you could absolutely save your marriage if you dressed different, showed more interest in getting out and doing stuff, or took up a new hobby, and kept it up, wouldn't that be worth it?

Well, I can't give you the 100% guarantee. But it's like the Powerball ad i heard on the radio:

"Odd are 1 in 3 million that you will win something if you play. They are much higher if you don't."