I guess I should give you the actual kind of help you asked for before I go, huh? Well, I got some help from reading No More Mr. Nice Guy by Glover, but you would only get much from it if your husband is a particular kind of guy--the "Mr. Nice Guy" who tries to avoid his own needs and desires to be a "nice guy" to everyone else and ends up passive-aggressive, unhappy and emasculated. It could help you, but it's really for him to read.
