Glad to hear you are all okay from the accident. Just keep taking care of you and the kids. I'm so glad you feel the support of those around you!
I know what you mean about this being energy sapping. I have been so emotionally exhausted this week. It is hard being upbeat and keeping up with life in general when I just don't feel like it.
Keep focusing on you and the kids. I think it is a good thing you don't really care anymore about what your H does. That will help you stay detached.