Peace - I'm sure he knows I'd take him back. He's stated more than once that he does/doesn't do things in order to not give me hope. (And I'm thinking: Who does he think he is?!) I actually think that him knowing I'd take him back is part of what's stopping him from ever coming back. (I'm not one to play games, so filing for D is not an attempt to get him back, but I do think my chances are better and that it's something that needs to be initiated, at the very least, in order for H to wake up a little.)
I think letting him know somehow that this isn't what I want is a good idea. Simple and honest is how I think I'll go. Should I bother asking why he seems to be stalling? Don't think I will... I can't remember who said it and on who's thread (sorry!), but I like the idea of asking what I can do to help speed things along.
