How long do we have to wait it out now....when are they going to give the OW the boot?
Interesting. Maybe it wouldn't matter so much if you were asking yourself when are YOU going to give HIM the boot?
I can't see where he is any better than the OW. Why can you hate and despise her and yet him be doing the same thing? Doesn't make sense to me. I really don't see that after 4 years that you can possibly think this is really working. Just because a man doesn't act likes he hates you doesn't mean that he is in love with you in the way that you want.
I have known hundreds if not thousands of men that just never seem to choose the woman that just keeps on loving him no matter what. Oh sure, us men will use that type of woman and take whatever she gives him. However the reality of the way I have seen is most men is that they need some sort of a challenge. They would rather chase than be chased deep inside. Gives them a challenge. When there is no challenge and it becomes too easy, then it becomes boring and we look for the next challenge in our lives. Why do you think men are so involved in sports? We are competitve. We love a new challenge. What is the reason that SO many men on this site woke up and suddeny realized the error of thier ways after YEARS of neglecting their wives? Why now are the men on here suddenly reading books, taking counseling, pleading for our help, and doing everything in their power to win back the wayward? Why didn't the do these things when the wife was crying and begging him to do so? Haven't you noticed that it wasn't UNTIL the woman showd him ENOUGH. I am not SURE what I want. I think I want out... Haven't you noticed that as a fine thread throughout the posts of the men on here? You need to think about that because it is the truth and the reality
Just because you as a woman doesn't undertand that doesn't make it not true. I would think after four years that you would be wondering if this really is working or not. I would venture to say NOT.
Don't mean to discourage you, but it is sad that you really are wasting so much of your life caught up in this that you refuse to let go of these men and realize there are many many more fish in the sea that WILL treat you right.
Or is it that YOU too are addicted to the challenge of wanting someone that doesn't want you?
