Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

Now the W is pushing for a D sooner then 6 mths, that we can both say weve been separated that long. She is really determined. She also thinks I am hiding things from her, which Ive never done anything for her to think I am untrustworthy. She on the other hand has done things since the separation that I cant trust her, I told her this. Its really sad how she is handling this situation, I feel like its getting to the point of no return, the point where she is going to do so much damage, to us and the people around us, that not only our M but any kind of relationship will not be possible in the future. Ive realized one thing, she needs mental help. The side that cares for her feels bad but I cant do anything about it. You cant lead a wild horse to water. In the beginning, I blamed myself for a lot of what happen, had much guilt, thought what could I have done differently, then over time I realized its not just me, its never just one person, it takes two to tango, she had baggage in the marriage she wont admit to, will never admit. Ive even talked to some of her friends and theyve said she is acting unstable and needs help, but they wont tell her this! Afraid of her I guess, what kind of friends are they?...

The good thing though is ive learned a ton from the DB forums, DR book, and other relationship books ive been reading. Ive been talking to my family more than I ever did in the past, reconnecting with old friends, and seeing things differently in the world. This is only going to make me a better person for my future and new relationships.