Band aid? I am not sure what you are talking about Kathleen...
Thought stopping: not working. Trying to control my obssessions. Not working.
stbxH pretended nothing was going on. We talked and he acted a bit overeager to talk to me. Sounds like he had forgotten about me... We spent the weekend together. Attended a social thing he was invited to as a family, introduced to me everybody etc etc
I told him I didnt appreciate the way our talk went the other night. I told him he needs to lose his defensiveness so that I can move on. He was more accepting and said he understands.
I made a comment about sex. Or better, the lack of the desire for sex. I made a joke "have you burnt out LM, because if you have then I should know, not going to settle with left overs?" He smiled and said no. "LM is out of touch due to lack of action"... That ticked me off and told him "dont give me that!!".We overcame that moment and continued to our "normal ops".
This is VERY hard. I keep wondering what am I getting myself into? Am I about to agree to settle in a comfortable but full with resentment relationship? K
