Just wanted to jump on your post and tell you that this statement is just HUGE, HUGE, HUGE:
"I've realized that I have been trying to save a marriage in which I was unhappy. That's just plain crazy...the conversations were the 2x4s I needed. My kids are my only concern going forward...not my wife's moods, emotions, actions, or feelings. Atleast this is my current state of mind."
That is just so full of great DB stuff and recovery from being tied to her emotional bumper. I will tell you what this statement did for me. It gave me the push I needed today to go to church w/ my 4 year old and not let the icy winds my H is blowing me affect me today.
Also, as you saw in Gucci and Robx's response to me, the whole commment you made about saving a marriage that wasn't happy to begin with is just ringing like a gong in my head.
Have a great day today if or if she doesn't go to the post session. I remember a month ago when the Retro weekend was just a hope in your mind and now your though it and really saw a lot of positives come from it. See what time can do?
Gina B
M 43 H 34 D 4 H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18; *I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)
