Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

ugetvince:

I keep seeing you post summaries of your conversations with her, and venting your frustrations. This is good -- better you vent to us than to her.

But I don't see anything about the work you're doing on yourself. What kinds of 180s are you doing? What efforts at getting a life and detaching?

Because if you're not doing either of these things, then you're not making any progress towards changing course. Working on yourself is the only real power you have to change things; if you aren't doing that, then you're still the same person she made up her mind to leave.