Not sure what to do

[TrentC]

So I asked her if she was happier without me. She couldn't answer. I asked her if she has made up her mind to tell me, so I can get on with my life. If she hasn't decided, then I was happy for her to take what ever time she needed.
She then asked me to give her until next Sunday. I explained I wasn't after an answer, but if she has decided to end it, to let me know. As I said before, once she makes her mind up, there is little hope of changing it.

And this is why you absolutely must drop the R talk, no matter how hard it is. Every time you push for an answer right now, you are more likely to get the answer you don't want.

Let her bring up the relationship. If she does, validate her feelings without supporting any kind of resolution. Your reponses should be something like:

"You and I are of different minds about this relationship. I feel we can make this work, but I won't stand in the way if you feel you have to leave."

SmileysPerson absolutely nailed it in his thread: DBing isn't about repairing your marriage, it's about changing course away from a divorce.