I remember. I was looking at some of the old threads I'd posted in a day or two ago and that was one that came up.

So . . . a year . . . are you better off, or worse? You don't read like you're happy with the separation. I know you didn't want things to end that way. What's going on?

Actually, I see the link in your sig. It's after 1:00 a.m. here, but in the morning I'll read this thread and get caught up. It looks like a monster:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1684882&page=1


Recovering Sex-Starved Husband.