Well, I am going to go dark. It is going to be hard and I need to write everywhere do not respond or just keep things short, but kind because H only talks to me if I bug him. I just need to let him go completely. I am still feeling good though.
I think I was thinking that forgiveness meant I couldn't be upset anymore and I couldn't say what he is doing is wrong. I am so free in knowing I can forgive and that means not being vengeful or using his wrongs against him. It also means if you really forgive you get a conviction about what was done and set boundaries so you are not used and abused. I feel so free! Looking forward to great things tomorrow at church.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89