I think you may have missed her point. Personal growth is about you and I being self sufficient and not dependent on our Ws or anyone else to get us through life. Its about us being strong individuals who don't loose themselves in every relationship just because of love.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09