25,

Nevermind. I found the post on another thread that you were referring to. And yes, I am hearing them.

And I understand that personal growth in your opinion and others is about walking away from the life you had and starting a new one that doesn't include your S who has chosen a new life for themselves without you in it.

Yes, I do get it.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...