Most of my friends are supposedly happily married and make suggestions that are completely opposite of DB.
This is one of the main reasons not to go to friends or family for advice. They love you, you're in pain so they'll offer whatever they think will end your pain quickly.
Good intentions.....
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
