Well, I did ask my counselor and she thought it was an interesting question. She said she could see my wife's point IF there had been some action on her part. She said for the most part, it's only empty promises. She suggested that I counter offer in that if my wife agreed to go to counseling and agree to start dating that only after we agreed that it was time to come home that I would not associate with any women she didn't approve of. She said that because the actions my wife has taken, it would be impossible to trust her until she showed that she could be trusted again. SO,
I talked to my wife and told her that I would take the OW off FB after she went to counseling and we dated for awhile. She flat out refused and said that if I would not honor her request then she was going to file next week as she has been getting asked out and she's tired of waiting for me. I told her to go ahead, have fun, you did it before, what's stopping you now? Then she started begging again, please, take this woman off your FB. I told her to have a good night and hung up.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!