Quick question for your. I think you read no more Mr. NG. What one is better 4-arguments or NMMNG? Are they complementary? Torn between 4-args and the fear one by S. Jeffers.
They are not complementary.
Honest answer? I bought The Four Agreements and borrowed NMMrNG from the library same day. Opened up NMMrNG, read most of the first chapter and was too upset to go on. True. The author, Robert Glover, nailed it. Nailed me, holding a mirror up to me that was frightening in its accuracy and one that I wasn't ready for just yet..
I decided to save NMMrNG for a (near) future time. When I'm ready to do some serious work. I have incorporated the 1st chapter into my IC sessions, though.
The Four Agreements continues to be and feel liberating.
C-Bart, flip through NMMrNG before you get it. You may say "Nope. Not me." or, "Wow. Wowww...." Who knows? The Four Agreements is universal.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac