The LBSer must MUST stop making the WAS the center of their universe, and some folks call that love or standing, and it's not. It's making someone the center of your universe (AND it's choosing the worst possible person at the worst possible time for that).
I cannot believe that God has brought you through so much and taught you so much, only to leave you alone in the lurch. You are being prepared for something good...with whom, I do not know. But you are not meant to be alone in the long run, with time ---so I look forward to hearing from you about your lives and how "just around the corner from here," is something/someone wonderful in your life. I really do. I know it's a gut instinct thing to say but hey, I "felt like sharing"...
Take care and hang in there...this terrible part will pass and things will get better. And don't get sidetracked. It's so easy to engage in circuitous arguments and debate irrelevant issues to death to avoid the internal work we all must do. What matters most is that you keep GAL, making forward progress every day if possible, and loving those children.
Thanks 25. I believe the very things that you are saying here.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
