It's too hard sometimes

[ginab1966]

Mark: Hi..you posted to my thread yesterday and said you sounded a lot like my husband. I don't have alot of time to talk but wanted to tell you that before you even THINK about getting back together with this woman you HAVE to work on you. You aren't doing her any good and you aren't doing YOU any good. The one thing I want my husband to do is acknowledge that his issues are BIG and BAD and need serious thought and attention. This is a twofold message to me...I love myself to get help. I love YOU and DD enough to get help.

YOu need to understand that the way you behave sucks the life out of people. Your W is just where I was in May when I left. I came back but I've come back to the same selfish, childish, depressed, life-sucking, deaming man I left.

Just get help if you can and get as much of it as you can.

I'll chat more later....I just need to go to bed. I'll be praying for you and hoping that you are ok. YOu aren't a bad person..you just have some stuff you need to work on before you can be a healthy partner...thats all.

Gina B