Originally Posted By: Gardener

The very first decision I made while I was still reading The Four Agreements was to decide to: not take my sitch personally.
None of it.
Not the bomb, not the leaving, not the continued and escalating distancing.
Nor the lies, the rewriting history, editing memories, nor bizarre accusations.
None of it.
I just don't take it personally.
I'm not taking it personally.
I refuse. No more.

What a burden that lifted.


Good for you!

Happy Halloween.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.