Ytjuy, Sorry you are here. I am so sorry to hear about your father. You have both been through a lot in a very short time. Can totally relate to your frustration. This is a good place to vent it. Please read the Divorce Remedy ASAP if you have not. I think you will find a lot of tools to help you.
I agree w LW & Spark you have time to work on this. It's not easy but the alternative is not either. I wish I had known about the book & this board before H moved out, but you start from where you are. I wish all the best for you & your family. Keep posting & reading! LFA
