I'm sorry, courts. I say if he wants to see DD in her costume, he should be there. He is being extremely selfish, and needs to start feeling the consequences of that.

Don't take pictures (except for yourself) and if he texts, ignore it till tomorrow. If he asks why you didn't answer, tell him you were having fun and didn't check your messages.

Worst-case scenario, this might make the case for sole custody a lot easier...

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."