25: thanks for the encouragement. I do have an appreciation of the value of the changes that has happened, and would really like to see your future comments and learn from them. I've stopped posting in my main thread for some time now, but would journal there from time to time.
Having had enough egg on my face in my M breakdown earlier to cause extinction of untold bird specie, I would still say hands on my heart, that the W and I are in a pretty good place right now, and I don't see it ending till one of us does. It's far from perfect, but we're in a "new" M that is far better than what we had pre-bomb.
C-Bart: before, oh quite some ways before.I would say that dealing with her guilt and my resentment at that point onwards were our main challenges. Famous last words perhaps, but there are just some things that can't be faked, that you just know. When the WAS mode drops, it's not just a change of verbal communications, or even actions. It's a literal change of mindset, of BEING.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
