CTH, I am so sorry to hear about your discovery. Just wanted to send you my support. Keep reading the other posts on here about from those in a similar sitch. From these I've gained support & guidance even when they are not replies to me. IMHO, Coach, Puppy, Karen43 and Sandi2 have some of the best advice for us LBS, along w many others. Read & reread DR on how to LRT & get through this tough time.
I am in month 7 of this ordeal & though it feels like a lifetime already I draw strength & a lot of good counsel from those who have been here longer, and really seem to be able to deal.
I wish the best for you & your daughters, and hope they get better soon. LFA