airwolf, read the book. i warn you about half way through it may bring tears to your eyes. you have been forewarned. i am so sorry to hear about your situation. at 7 years in, i was on the other end of this. a unique perspective.

i will tell you that in my sitch, i have been brought to my knees with christianity. it has been the amazing comfort in my life. well, that and my kids.

can you tell me more about court ordered counseling? where are you in your process? i am heading to your thread now.

ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present