That's what I think I'll do. Treat him like an old friend. I will definitely be focusing my attention elsewhere this time. I was thinking more about it today. And its all really bizarre to me. How he could come in my home, give me a great spiel about our future together, use the intimacy card, take me to bed, and then for then entire next week not even touch me more than a few hugs here and there? Does this seem odd to anyone? Its starting to get to me. He hugged me yesterday when picking up the boys, he complimented my new haircut. Wished me a good night and was off. Hmmm? Maybe he's having second thoughts about the R talk? Maybe he changed his mind AGAIN! I dunno. He went and played hockey last night out of town and they had a big party afterward so that will be interesting how good he is going to feel today for "a day with his kids" on Halloween. Ugh

Happy Halloween everyone!

Trent, shave it off for sure. That would be such an exhilarating change for you to make! It might be the best thing you've done in a while! do it!


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14