awesome, SP. brutal honesty with yourself, incredible insight, excellent analysis. I also came to the conclusion awhile back that resentment is the most toxic of the many emotional responses to a spouse; however, I still haven't figured out how to avoid or prevent it.

fwiw, I haven't heard the fat lady singing on your stage.

Last edited by hoosiermama; 10/31/09 03:29 PM.
M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012