I'd just tell her what your IC said and ask her what she thinks about it. Be open to her thoughts and feedback.

If you're there though you may hear some things that would be tough to hear.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.