When you go to MC on Monday, make a point to acknowledge to your C (while in the presence of your H) some of the positive things you have recently noticed with regards to your H.
That's a really good iddea. I second the motion! Stuff like that really seems to go a long way with people. It's also like positive reinforcement. I've heard that ignoring the negative behavors and rewarding the positive behaviors works really well for WAS's...and kids too ;p
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.