Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I am just astonished at the hurt that is caused day afer day after day and these spouses really don't seem to give a rats' a** about the damage they cause...

I see new people come here everyday and my heart breaks for them...

I just want to wrap them all up and drop them on an island somewhere far away because they have no clue what is in store for them in the coming days, weeks, months etc...


But as someone's sig quote points out, many of them are hurting just as bad. They're just choosing to take it out on us. It's not fair, but we have the power to end our pain whenever we want, by leaving them behind.

And yeah, even in the week or so I've been here, seeing new people come in every day makes me feel like an emotional trauma surgeon.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."