Your values. What words help define what matters to you, give your life meaning and keep you centered. Not keeping your word (values) causes cognitive dissonance.
Yes, exactly. I revisit it not out of confusion or not getting it, but because to me it is a much deeper, more complex agreement than the others. Has many more facets, if you will.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac