Great quote Gima passed on there. I'd never seen that one before.
There's also this to keep in mind re DBing - from SmileysPerson's excellent post of this evening:
Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Because I'd forgotten, you see, the Real Point of Divorce Busting. It isn't to Rebuild Your Marriage.
It's to Stop The Divorce.
What do I mean by that? The reason we do this whole thing is, in a very real sense, to turn back the clock to the minute before Walkaway drops the Bomb. Yes, it's to improve the stuff that led up to that minute, but the outcome of successful DB'ing isn't a renewed marriage -- it's the opportunity to renew the marriage.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
