I'll do a better job at ignoring him until I have no choice. I have already vowed I won't deal with him all weekend.
SG. Don't think of it as ignoring. It is called detachment. There is a thread on here started by Coach that I would suggest you read. It is a great thread and Coach is one of the best on these boards.
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
There could be an EA. I can't rule anything out, but I would be very surprised. At this point, I don't care. I just want to know that my kids will be taken care of.
We went out with friends on a Wednesday, he told me he loved me on Sunday, and then boom! I was pretty much always with him, and cell phone records haven't really changed. The only thing different is he is having a great time hanging out with his new friends from work.
I am new here, so I am far from an expert. But Puppy is often correct. And I find it strange that your H would leave you for nothing if there seemed to be no major issues in your M. Are his friends from work all guys?
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
No, he has never had therapy, and yes, his family has issues. His mom and sister are whackos.
What do you mean by whacko? Have they been diagnosed with anything? Does he show any similiar traits?
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
We have a full weekend planned, so I should be able to stop thinking about him. I do hope missing out on Halloween stabs him in the heart a bit.
I'm quickly getting to the point where I hope he comes back for the kids, but I don't need him.
Kids are D11, D10, D8 and S5
Go have a Happy Halloween with your kids. Try not to worry about him or what he is thinking this weekend. I have 2 girls 6 & 3, one is going out as the Wicked Witch of the West & the other is Dorothy.
