how long do you date b4 you bring a girl around the D? I was thinking a yr would be great, but that is a long time considering this situation.
I waited to introduce The Eventual Mrs. Gardener to my sons (11 and 13 at the time (yes, this is my 2nd M and STB 2nd D)) until it felt right. For me, it was time to do it when it felt like it was time to do it.
Maybe that will happen for you. FWIW.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
