Keep Your Hands Offa My Mojo

[Gardener]

SP,
Good post. Excellent. Thanks for the buffet of food-for-thought, You must be exhausted after that; I'd be.

Because I'd forgotten, you see, the Real Point of Divorce Busting. It isn't to Rebuild Your Marriage.

It's to Stop The Divorce.

What do I mean by that? The reason we do this whole thing is, in a very real sense, to turn back the clock to the minute before Walkaway drops the Bomb. Yes, it's to improve the stuff that led up to that minute, but the outcome of successful DB'ing isn't a renewed marriage -- it's the opportunity to renew the marriage.

I'd forgotten, too. Perhaps that's why nothing "worked": No moving toward, no curiosity, etc. She wanted less and less and less contact until now? Well my 3 1/2 hrs in Chicago with her in her presence was more time "together" than the previous 2 months combined.

With your permission, SP, I think the above deserves a place in "Quotes found on Divorce Busting (II).
Take care. You're gonna be just fine. We all are. One way or t'other.